Communities (you might find me here):
Oasis – Weekend spanking parties in Vegas, August and February – I’ve already got Labor Day 2026 on my calendar!
Sips and Smacks Podcast – great podcast – plus a Patreon Discord server for ToGI
Rosy Peaches – Los Angeles area spanking group. Hosts weekly munches and parties.
TASSP (Texas All State Spanking Party) – Hands down (yes, I see what I did there) the best spanking party I’ve been to since the last Sportsman’s Lodge Shadow Lane. A wonderful sense of community with lots of creative programming in a fantastic hotel. In Texas!
Blue Sky: @mija-again.bsky.social
Twitter: @eltercerojo
Paul’s Blog:
Northgare – About All The Things. Sometimes he posts, sometimes it’s kinky.
Story Sites:
Laura’s Spanking Corner – This is the first and best story site as far as I’m concerned, built by the wonderful Laura Werner. And Laura, if you ever see this, thank you and I miss you.
Firm But Fair: Stories With Consequences – Adam is part of a new generation of spanking fiction writers. We have a few communities that we share. I couldn’t have been happier to meet him at his first spanking party. The stories in this are disciplinary — just my cup of tea. Updated often, but not often enough.
Saint Francis School for Girls – Mary Catherine’s school is a lovely world. Go visit.
Those Were The Days – An utterly unique site. It’s like sitting around with your girlfriends, getting told stories about their school days. And spanking…
A Spanking For Cora – Lovely new story site. So far there’s one three part story and it’s excellent. Note: It’s a Blogspot site that requires a Google login for reading or commenting.
Norse Cavalier – Stories! I’ve only read a few, but I am already in love. There appear to be LOTS. 🙂
O & P Spanking Stories – and – Oaks and Pines – These two sites, which totally hit my spanking AND boarding school sweet spots, speak to the sort of fun fantasies and games I’m eager to know more about. Perhaps I’ll see you there!
Case Wintersmute – Like so many of us, Wintersmute was a reader and poster on both alt.sex.spanking and soc.sexuality.spanking. His site is wonderful because in addition to archiving his amazing stories, he also archived other newsgroup writers, most notably Naomi Darvell. Even better, he writes about his links (t0o many for sites that are now sadly gone) and their authors. I confess I just spent over two hours poking about there.
The Shadows Play – This spanking / domestic discipline site is one I’ve only recently started to read. The stories I’ve read so far have been F/F. The writing is excellent with a smoldering tension between characters. Yum.
Other Blogs:
Asa Jones’ Spanking Emporium – This is a great blog that combines technical information about, among other things, Mr. Jones photography combined with AI. This AI walkthrough post is especially good.
Emma Bishop’s Blog – The Trouble with Emma – Spanking model and author Emma Bishop’s excellent blog. It’s honest, fun, and always a good read.
Emma’s Story Corner – This is Emma X’s story site. She’s a wonderful author, writing mostly F/F stories, something I love. This one had me from the first line “And You Are Telling Me This Is Your Best?” — that title!!! It’s on another site but she links to it from hers.
Erica’s Love, Life, and Spanking – Erica Scott’s excellent blog where she’s been explaining it all for years. I especially like her “Hall of Shame” posts.
Hermione’s Heart – Hermione’s wonderful blog, most famous for its weekly Sunday brunch.
My Bottom Smarts – Bonnie’s still blogging… and isn’t that fantastic?
Natty’s Spanking Blog – Natty’s blog hasn’t been active in a long time but I love it and her so, like my students say, I am “manifesting” my wish that it be active again.